Girls masturbate too.
A statement which thankfully no one will find very shocking these days... in 2022... or would someone?
Why I feel (daily) that female sexuality is still not normalized
Fictional scenario:
A young woman says to a man
"I masturbate daily too"
"I masturbate several times a day too"
"I watch porn too"
(pick one)
I would say a good 80% of them would react like this: "WHAT REALLY?" and then probably see it as an invitation to have sex.
Well... I guess it's not that normalized then is it?
+ Talking about that fact so openly, the woman in question would be considered a:
a) too sexual for a woman
b) easy
c) maybe even a sl*t
d) saying that for female attention
While in the case of men, it is normal to be very sexual. It is a given that boys and men masturbate several times a day... but why?
Men masturbating every day is considered like farting
In 2022, thankfully, female sexuality is less tabooed...or is it?
"For most of history, women's sexual desire has been vilified & their pleasure dismissed, while men's sexuality & pleasure is seen as the centre of it all - both are ideologies that have been created though a long period of time."
What can we do?
Well, I guess there is no simple solution to shaking these attitudes and feelings. But a first step would be to acknowledge that we still silence women on their sexual health, their preferences, experiences and needs.
We need to address it, to see it in order to normalite it.
GIRLS MASTURBATE TOO. very, very often.
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